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Don't Make It An Habit To Tell Friends About Your Marriage

Monday, March 17, 2014

I know you love to talk
to your friends about your
marriage. It is interesting and
helpful too. But, don't make a
habit out of it. There are
certain details of your
marriage that should remain
a secret between you and
your spouse. So, here are
some marriage secrets on
which you must zip your lips,
at least partly.
1. Finances and spending
Conversation about your
budget and finances will do
no good to anyone else's
ears. You are just exposing a
confidential part of your
household to your pals.
Remember, sorting and
discussing your expenses and
money matters is none of
their business. So, better keep
these accounts enveloped.
2. Who pays the bill?
Your buddies might be very
close to you, but 'who pays
for what' is something they
should not be involved in.
Whether you split your bills
or not, do not unveil it in
front of your friends. Money
matters should stay between
couples; it is not something
you should discuss with your
3. Chemistry with inlaws
You may think it is ok to lash
out about how you deal with
your in-laws. But, your
equation with your in-laws is
not a piece of gossip. Be it a
positive or a negative
experience; kindly bury it
deep in your heart. Your in-
laws are not your kitty party
topic, so allow this
discussion to stay between
your family walls only.
4. Your spouse's character
It is not worth divulging the
personal traits of your spouse
to your comrades. Whether
your spouse love to dig their
nose or snores in the night or
eats Chinese food with hands,
doesn't mean you will lay
bare those details for all. You
should not be so casual while
talking about your significant
5. Baby making
Bringing a baby into the
world is a life-changing
decision and there is no need
for you to let any third person
know about the idea.
Consider it your personal
matter and hide it from your
pals. A friend's advice is not
required over here.
6. Lock up your bedroom
It might appear romantic, but
it is not usual if he is always
on a self-sacrificing spree.
The statement may seem
unfair, but there is no harm in
being cautious. Real love is
open, candid and from the
heart. So in a healthy
relationship, it is unreal to
compromise all the time.
You are courting danger if he
is always foregoing and
forgiving. All he might want
to do is gain an upper hand.
If it is true love, you should
know for what reasons he is
being cooperative all the
So ladies, keep your mind
open even when you feel your
heart taking over your
senses. Just watch out for
these signs to find your true
prince charming and get rid
of the fake on
7.Never reveal the dynamics
of your relationship to your
friends. Every family has a
crowned head, be it husband
or wife. But, this doesn't
mean that either of you is
submissive. So don't let your
friends know who 'wears the
pants' in your house.
No matter how close you are
to your pals, your marriage
and its details should stay
only between you and your
spouse. There are certain
marriage secrets that you
should never trade.

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